Understanding Mixed Signals in Dating: What They Really Mean
The Situation
"She sends mixed signals through text and I don't know where I stand"
The Brutal Truth
You're dealing with someone who is either emotionally unavailable or unsure about their feelings. Their mixed signals indicate a lack of commitment, leading to frustration and uncertainty. Stop questioning your worth; focus on boundaries instead.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start over-analyzing every text, trying to decipher intentions and second-guessing themselves, which only feeds insecurity. It's wrong because it places your emotional well-being in someone else's uncertain hands.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you feels it's acceptable to tolerate uncertainty when you deserve clarity in love?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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