Understanding Mixed Signals in Dating: Need for Space vs. Upset
The Situation
"She said she needs space but gets upset when I give it to her"
The Brutal Truth
She says she needs space but seeks attention when given it. This behavior indicates confusion or emotional unavailability. She’s not ready for the relationship but still desires your affection, leading to frustrating mixed signals.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might flood her with messages, trying to 'fix' the situation or seek reassurance. This only reinforces her inconsistency and pushes her further away, breeding resentment instead of clarity.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What message are you sending about your own needs when you tolerate mixed signals without addressing them?
✨ What To Do Next
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