How to Interpret Mixed Signals in Relationships
The Situation
"He says marrying me for a visa would ruin his image"
The Brutal Truth
He’s prioritizing his image over your partnership, indicating he might be more invested in appearances than genuine connection. This is a tactic to create distance and avoid commitment, as valuing image more than love is a major red flag.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to convince him that their relationship can work regardless of how it looks, disregarding their own needs. This is dangerous as it perpetuates the cycle of self-doubt and dependency on his validation.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do you need to set for yourself in order to feel valued and respected in your relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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