Understanding Mixed Signals: Thinking of You but No Plans
The Situation
"He said he's thinking about me but won't make plans"
The Brutal Truth
He's keeping you on the line without any real commitment. His words are empty. It's a classic case of breadcrumbing—promising thoughts but not backing them up with actions. Protect your heart.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might keep texting him, seeking reassurance and validation. This is misguided because it gives away your power and may lead to further frustration instead of clarity.
💭 Something to Reflect On
If you had a friend in this situation, how would you guide her to prioritize her self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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