Understanding Mixed Signals: He Watches Your Stories but Leaves You on Read
The Situation
"She watches my stories immediately but leaves me on read"
The Brutal Truth
He's interested enough to watch your social media but disinterested in actual connection. This behavior signals emotional unavailability and a lack of respect for your time and feelings.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might obsess over why he's leaving them on read, potentially overanalyzing every interaction or trying harder to get his attention. This is wrong because it undermines your self-worth and pushes you into a position of lack instead of standing in your power.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What is your worth beyond someone else’s attention, and how can you communicate that to yourself?
✨ What To Do Next
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