Why Mocking Your Partner's Music Taste is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She mocks my music taste and calls it dad music"
The Brutal Truth
She disrespects your interests, showing a lack of appreciation for who you are. It’s a subtle way of asserting dominance, indicating she doesn’t value your individuality. This behavior can erode self-esteem and create an unhealthy dynamic in the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-apologize or change their music taste to please her, thinking it's their responsibility to fix the situation. This is wrong because it compromises their identity for someone who doesn't appreciate them for who they are.
💭 Something to Reflect On
Why do you think you accept people who disrespect your interests?
✨ What To Do Next
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