When His Mom Wants a House Key to Your Apartment
The Situation
"His mom wants a house key even though it's my apartment"
The Brutal Truth
This is a major boundary issue. His mom asking for a key is a clear signal that he lacks respect for your space, and he may be using her as an excuse to intertwine lives without your consent. Red flag!
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might agree to give the key to please everyone, fearing conflict or rejection. But this perpetuates unhealthy dynamics and neglects your need for personal boundaries.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do I need to establish to feel safe and respected in my own space?
✨ What To Do Next
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