Is Monitoring Your Location a Red Flag in Relationships?
The Situation
"She monitors my location through shared photos"
The Brutal Truth
She's exerting control over you by tracking your whereabouts. This behavior screams trust issues, insecurity, and manipulation. It's not love; it's possessiveness disguised as concern.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel compelled to reassure her or change their behavior to avoid conflict. This is wrong because it denies your needs and normalizes controlling behavior.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How has your relationship with trust shaped your expectations in love, and what do you truly deserve?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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