Navigating Family Pressure: When Parents Ask About Grandchildren in Dating
The Situation
"His parents keep asking about grandchildren even though we've never discussed kids"
The Brutal Truth
His parents pushing for grandchildren suggests he’s possibly feeling pressure to conform to family expectations, which means he might not be on the same page as you regarding future plans. Don't confuse family expectations with your relationship's reality.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start overthinking their relationship and initiate discussions about kids prematurely, hoping to soothe their insecurities. This is wrong because it rushes a crucial conversation without a solid foundation in your dynamic.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How comfortable are you discussing your actual relationship needs versus family expectations?
✨ What To Do Next
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