Navigating Mixed Signals in Dating: What Her Actions Mean
The Situation
"She said she's not that type of girl but acts differently"
The Brutal Truth
She's clearly not being honest about who she is or what she wants. If she claims she's not that type of girl, yet acts otherwise, it shows confusion or intent to mislead. Trust her actions, not just her words.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may chase after her, seeking reassurance and clarity, thinking that more attention will change her feelings. This is a mistake; it only reinforces her mixed signals and undermines your self-worth.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you have to accept mixed signals instead of demanding transparency and honesty?
✨ What To Do Next
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