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Why She Says She Needs Space But Keeps Reaching Out

🚨Red FlagToxicity Score: 7/10
#mixed-signals#emotional-unavailability#commitment-issues#red-flags

The Situation

"She said she needs space but keeps reaching out"

The Brutal Truth

Her 'need for space' is a manipulation tactic. She wants to keep you attached without committing. This signals emotional unavailability and confusion about her feelings—don’t get trapped in her indecision.

❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)

An anxious person might start over-texting or begging for clarity, fearing abandonment. This is wrong because it reinforces her manipulative behavior and makes you appear desperate. Trust your worth!

💭 Something to Reflect On

What habit or belief has you questioning your own needs in relationships?

✨ What To Do Next

Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.

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Mariana - Relationship Coach

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