Understanding the Red Flags of Night-Only Dating
The Situation
"He said he wants something serious but only wants to hang out at night"
The Brutal Truth
He claims he wants a serious relationship, but hanging out only at night reveals he's likely seeking something casual. His actions say he’s not ready to commit and wants to maintain a low-investment situation, which is a clear red flag.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may start overthinking and obsessing over signs to convince themselves he's still interested. This behavior is unhealthy because it relies on uncertainty and compromises their self-worth instead of recognizing red flags and setting boundaries.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does your gut tell you about his intentions, and how does that reflect your own needs and worth?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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