When She’s Not Ready for a Relationship but Open to Sex: What It Means
The Situation
"She said she's not ready for a relationship but is ready for sex"
The Brutal Truth
She's basically telling you she wants the physical connection without any emotional commitment. This is a clear sign of emotional unavailability and potential breadcrumbing—where she keeps you interested with sex but won’t give you the relationship you deserve.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling on to hope, thinking they can change her mind or convince her to commit. This is toxic because it fosters dependency on her giving you what only you should provide for yourself: a stable emotional foundation.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about your self-worth if you’re considering accepting mixed signals instead of someone who values your need for clarity?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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