If She's Not Ready to Date, Why Is She Going Out with Others?
The Situation
"She said she's not ready to date but goes on dates with other guys"
The Brutal Truth
Her saying she's not ready to date but still accepting dates indicates she is emotionally unavailable. She's enjoying attention without commitment and isn't being honest about her readiness or intentions. You deserve someone who is clear about their feelings!
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might keep pursuing her, hoping she'll change her mind or become interested. This is wrong because it only reinforces her inconsistency and makes you undervalue your own worth. Stop chasing and start recognizing your own needs!
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do I need to establish to ensure I’m valued for who I am, rather than just a source of attention?
✨ What To Do Next
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