When One-Sided Effort in Dating Signals Deeper Issues
The Situation
"She expects me to do all the work in the relationship"
The Brutal Truth
He's disregarding the partnership aspect of a relationship to avoid emotional vulnerability. This entitlement to your effort indicates a lack of respect for your needs and shows he values control over genuine connection.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overcompensate by constantly pleasing him or trying to prove their worth. This is damaging because it puts your needs last and encourages an unhealthy dynamic.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does it say about my self-worth if I'm willing to chase someone who won’t meet me halfway?
✨ What To Do Next
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