When Your Partner's Family Disrespects Your Career Choices
The Situation
"Her family insists we live near them and mocks my job in another city"
The Brutal Truth
They don't respect your job or autonomy, pushing you to live near them, indicating control and a lack of support for your ambitions. This mocks your efforts and undermines your worth, hinting at a toxic family dynamic that can influence the relationship negatively.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel pressured to conform, sacrificing their own needs to seek approval, which is damaging because it devalues their own worth and leads to resentment.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
How do I balance my needs and desires with the approval of my partner's family?
✨ What To Do Next
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