When Your Partner Isn't There During Tough Times: Red Flags
The Situation
"She's not there for me during difficult times"
The Brutal Truth
If she’s not there when times get tough, it means she’s emotionally unavailable and prioritizing her own comfort over your needs. This pattern screams lack of commitment and support. You deserve someone who shows up, not someone who disappears when it really matters.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase after her, making excuses for her lack of support and bending over backward to gain her approval. This move is unhealthy; it compromises your worth and signals to her that it's okay to be selfish.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only date someone who shows up for you during hard times?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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