Why Your Partner’s Refusal to Discuss Adoption Is a Major Red Flag
The Situation
"She says adoption is off the table without hearing my reasons"
The Brutal Truth
She’s shutting down the conversation without considering your views, which shows a lack of empathy and unwillingness to collaborate on important life decisions. It’s a sign she prioritizes her stance over open dialogue and growth in the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might apologize excessively or try to convince her to reconsider, fearing rejection. This is harmful because it puts their own needs last and undermines healthy boundaries.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to prioritize open communication in your relationships and ensure both partners' voices are heard?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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