Why Your Partner's Commitment to Marriage Means Nothing Without Action
The Situation
"He said he wants to marry me someday but won't move in together"
The Brutal Truth
He’s dangling a future commitment to keep you invested, but he's unwilling to take steps in the present. It's a classic case of emotional unavailability. His words are mere distractions from his fear of intimacy or responsibility.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling tighter, trying to prove their worth or persuade him to commit, believing that their love can change his mind. This approach only undermines their self-worth and perpetuates unhealthy dynamics.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only date someone who aligns their words with consistent actions?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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