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Why Your Partner Scheduling Embryo Transfers Alone Is a Red Flag

🚨Red FlagToxicity Score: 8/10
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The Situation

"She schedules embryo transfers without involving me"

The Brutal Truth

She prioritizes her own plans over your partnership, showing a lack of respect for your role and feelings in this major decision. This indicates she may not be invested in mutual decision-making or your relationship's future as a team.

❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)

An anxious partner might overcompensate by trying to please her, apologizing excessively, or making excuses for her behavior—this is wrong because it validates her disregard for mutual respect and undermines their own self-worth.

đź’­ Something to Reflect On

What does it mean to you when someone makes major decisions without considering your input?

✨ What To Do Next

Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.

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You don't have to figure this out alone. Let's work together to help you trust yourself, set boundaries, and attract the love you deserve.

Mariana - Relationship Coach

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