Dealing with Partners Who Invite Exes on Group Trips
The Situation
"His friends invite their exes to group trips and expect me to be fine"
The Brutal Truth
He doesn't respect your feelings or boundaries. Inviting his ex puts you in a position of insecurity and signals that he prioritizes his past over your relationship. This is a blatant disregard for your emotional health.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to fit in by pretending to be comfortable with the situation, suppressing their feelings in hopes of keeping the peace. This is unhealthy and leads to deeper resentment and self-doubt.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What are your non-negotiables in a relationship, and how can you communicate them more confidently?
✨ What To Do Next
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