Why Refusing to Put Down Their Phone During Dinner is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She refuses to get off her phone during dinner with my parents"
The Brutal Truth
She doesn’t respect your family or the occasion. Her phone distracts her from meaningful connections, showing she prioritizes social media over genuine interaction. This behavior signals emotional unavailability and lack of commitment.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to please her, downplaying their discomfort and making excuses for her behavior. This is wrong because it devalues your needs and reinforces unhealthy patterns.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What needs are being overlooked in this relationship, and how can you communicate them effectively without fear of rejection?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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