When Your Partner Prioritizes Friends Over You: Red Flags
The Situation
"She prioritizes girls' trips over our commitments"
The Brutal Truth
Her choice to prioritize girls' trips over your commitments signals a clear lack of investment in the relationship. It shows she may not value your connection enough to make it a priority, indicating potential emotional unavailability.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might double down on trying to convince her of the value of the relationship, possibly compromising their own needs and desires to gain her approval. This is harmful because it breeds resentment and invalidates their own worth.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What needs in a relationship are you willing to prioritize, and how can you communicate them assertively?
✨ What To Do Next
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