When Proposal Pressure Ruins Your Vacation Budget
The Situation
"She insists on a proposal during a trip I can't afford"
The Brutal Truth
She’s prioritizing her agenda over your financial comfort, pushing for a proposal at your expense. This shows a lack of respect for your boundaries and values, indicating she's dismissing your feelings and putting her desires above your reality.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may go along with the proposal pressure, convincing themselves that this is what love looks like. This is wrong because it sacrifices personal needs and worth for someone else's expectations.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What financial or emotional sacrifices have I made to keep someone else happy, and how has that impacted my self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
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