Why His Proposal to an Ex While Claiming Not Ready for Marriage is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He said he's not ready for marriage but proposed to his ex after six months"
The Brutal Truth
He's not being honest with you. Saying he's not ready for marriage while proposing to someone else signals a profound commitment issue or emotional unavailability. You're worth more than mixed signals and empty promises.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling tighter, trying to convince him to reconsider or shower him with affection, believing that proving their worth will change his mind. This is harmful because it ignores their own needs and self-worth for the sake of someone else's indecision.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does this situation reveal about your own relationship patterns and what you truly want in a partner?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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