Recognizing Red Flags: He's Planning Trips Without You
The Situation
"He plans bachelor-style trips and leaves me out"
The Brutal Truth
He's prioritizing his fun over your relationship, showing a lack of commitment and respect for your needs. This is a red flag that indicates he’s not looking for a serious partnership.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase him for answers or try to make excuses for his behavior, which only diminishes their self-worth and keeps them stuck in the cycle of seeking his approval.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about my needs and boundaries when I'm excluded from something as significant as his trips?
✨ What To Do Next
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