Red Flags of Emotional Unavailability: He Won't Learn Your Cycle
The Situation
"He says let's see what happens but refuses to learn my cycle"
The Brutal Truth
He’s showing a lack of interest in truly understanding you. Saying ‘let's see what happens’ is his way of keeping options open without committing. It’s convenient for him but dismissive of your needs—it’s a passive approach that screams emotional unavailability.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start over-explaining their needs or trying to convince him to invest more. This behavior is wrong because it compromises their self-worth and places the burden of emotional labor on them, instead of demanding equal effort.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about my worth when I tolerate someone's unwillingness to understand me?
✨ What To Do Next
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