Red Flags: He Thinks Plane Tickets Are Expensive but Buys Gadgets
The Situation
"He says plane tickets are expensive yet buys new gadgets"
The Brutal Truth
He prioritizes superficial desires over meaningful experiences with you, revealing a lack of investment in the relationship. This indicates that he may not be serious about building a future together, despite pretending to want connection.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might downplay the red flag, making excuses for his behavior and convincing themselves it's not a big deal. This is toxic because it keeps you trapped in a cycle of unfulfilled desires and low self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What patterns have you experienced in your past relationships, and how have they shaped your needs and expectations in this one?
✨ What To Do Next
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