Red Flags of Marriage Talk with Hidden Motives
The Situation
"She only talks about marriage when her visa is expiring"
The Brutal Truth
She's only mentioning marriage to secure her status before the visa expires, not out of genuine commitment. This is a manipulative tactic that shows her priorities lie in self-preservation rather than building a healthy relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel pressured to comply or escalate the relationship to prevent her from leaving. This is wrong because it disregards personal boundaries and self-respect in favor of insecurity.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
If you were to trust your gut fully, what would your instincts say about this person's intentions?
✨ What To Do Next
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