Why She Refuses to Let You Visit Her Campus: Red Flags to Watch For
The Situation
"She refuses to let me visit her campus"
The Brutal Truth
She may be avoiding vulnerability or commitment. Her refusal could signify she's not that into you, doesn't feel safe, or is holding onto something else. This is a huge signal about her comfort level in the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to persuade her, making excuses for her behavior or doubting their worth. This is wrong because it disregards their own needs and clings to someone who may not be ready for them.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does it mean to you when someone avoids being vulnerable with you?
✨ What To Do Next
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