When He Refuses to Set a Timeline for Closing the Distance
The Situation
"He refuses to set a timeline for closing the distance"
The Brutal Truth
This is his way of saying he’s not really committed or invested. He may enjoy keeping you around without actually planning for a future together. It’s a sign he might be more interested in keeping things casual than addressing your needs.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start overanalyzing every interaction, texting him more often in search of reassurance and acceptance. This only pushes him away further because it shows desperation rather than confidence.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to prioritize your own timeline and needs in a relationship, rather than adapting to someone else's uncertainty?
✨ What To Do Next
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