Refusing to Define a Timeline: Signs of Commitment Issues
The Situation
"She says she'll say yes but refuses to talk timeline"
The Brutal Truth
She's likely saying she wants a relationship but isn't ready to commit or define what that looks like. This vagueness indicates emotional unavailability and a fear of being pinned down or making real plans.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might push for a timeline or constantly seek reassurance, which can push the other person away. This is wrong because it often leads to more anxiety and doesn't help clarify the relationship's future.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to be in a relationship where both partners openly discuss their future together?
✨ What To Do Next
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