Why Refusing to Travel Together Signals Commitment Issues
The Situation
"He refuses to visit me on work trips but complains we never travel"
The Brutal Truth
He wants to keep you around without actually investing in the relationship. His complaints are a guilt trip, deflecting responsibility for his lack of action. It's manipulation disguised as frustration.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might scramble to make excuses for him, convincing themselves that he's just busy or stressed. This is wrong because it sidesteps the fact that his behavior shows a lack of interest in truly participating in the relationship.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What patterns are you repeating in relationships that leave you feeling unfulfilled or confused?
✨ What To Do Next
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