Relying on Fate: A Red Flag in Dating and Relationships
The Situation
"He insists we rely on fate instead of medical advice"
The Brutal Truth
This guy is avoiding responsibility and trying to romanticize your situation. He wants to leave the outcome to fate rather than dealing with the reality of the matter, showing a lack of emotional maturity and commitment to your well-being.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to convince him through endless conversation, seeking to 'understand' his perspective, but this only enables his avoidance behavior instead of holding him accountable for addressing real issues.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of this situation makes me uncomfortable, and how can I prioritize my needs in future relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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