Why Saying He Cares But Doesn't Show It is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He said he cares but doesn't show it"
The Brutal Truth
His words are empty. Saying he cares without actions means he's either emotionally unavailable or playing games. He may want you around for convenience but doesn't value you enough to invest. Watch out—this is a classic sign of toxic behavior.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start overthinking his actions and reaching out more, trying to gain reassurance. This is the wrong move because it signals neediness and lowers your self-worth; it should be him earning your trust through consistent actions instead.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to prioritize consistent actions over empty words in your relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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