Why Saying 'We Should Do This Again' Means Nothing
The Situation
"He said we should do this again but never followed up"
The Brutal Truth
His words are just fluff; he's not genuinely interested. This is classic breadcrumbing—saying what sounds good but not following through. His lack of action shows he doesn’t value you or your time, so don’t chase what’s not real.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might reach out multiple times, seeking reassurance or explanation. This is unhealthy because it gives away your power and prioritizes his interest over your emotional well-being.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to prioritize your own standards over chasing after someone who isn’t consistent?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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