Why He Keeps the Conversation Going But Never Asks You Out
The Situation
"He keeps the conversation going but never asks me out"
The Brutal Truth
He enjoys your attention and the ego boost of your interest but has no intention of taking it further. This is breadcrumbing, keeping you engaged without real commitment.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overthink the situation, trying to decipher hints and seeking constant validation from him. This is wrong because it reinforces a cycle of insecurity and neediness.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to invest your energy in someone who makes their intentions crystal clear?
✨ What To Do Next
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