Understanding the Pattern of Seasonal Reappearance in Dating
The Situation
"She reappears every November like clockwork"
The Brutal Truth
He’s only interested in you when it’s convenient for him, showing a lack of genuine commitment. You deserve someone who is consistent, not someone who only pops up when it suits their needs.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel compelled to engage with him every November, hoping that this time it means something more. This is a trap that reinforces unhealthy patterns and prevents you from finding genuine love.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would a consistent, reliable relationship look like for you, and what patterns are you ready to leave behind to make that a reality?
✨ What To Do Next
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