Why Seeing Her Active After Deleting the App Is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She said she deleted the app but I still see her active"
The Brutal Truth
She’s either lying or playing games. Her actions contradict her words, signaling a lack of respect for your time and feelings. This behavior is classic manipulation and indicates she may not have the emotional maturity to communicate openly.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may obsessively check the app for updates, seeking validation and clarity. This is unproductive and damaging, as it undermines self-worth and fosters dependency on his actions for their emotional stability.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does my gut instinct tell me about someone who can't be transparent about their actions?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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