Why Saying He Wants Something Serious but Avoids Labels is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He said he wants something serious but won't define the relationship"
The Brutal Truth
He's saying he wants something serious to keep you interested, but the lack of definition means he's not willing to commit. This is classic mixed signals and emotional unavailability. Don't let his words mislead your heart.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may feel the urge to press for definitions or overanalyze every interaction, believing that they can change his mind. This only amplifies anxiety and keeps you in a state of uncertainty. Remember, you deserve clarity and respect.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to prioritize your own needs and seek someone who openly defines the relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
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