Why Sharing Romantic Advice Instead of Communicating is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She shares romantic advice from strangers instead of talking to me"
The Brutal Truth
She's prioritizing advice from strangers over direct communication with you, signaling emotional distance and avoidance. This indicates she's likely uncomfortable with vulnerability and may not value the foundation of your relationship enough to engage sincerely.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overanalyze this behavior, obsessing over what they might have done wrong, leading to self-doubt and unnecessary worry. This keeps you trapped in fear rather than empowering you to initiate clear communication about your needs.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
If someone you cared about faced this situation, what advice would you give them about their worth and expectations in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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