Why She Doesn't Want You to Meet Her Friends: A Red Flag
The Situation
"She doesn't want me to meet her friends"
The Brutal Truth
She's keeping you at arm's length because she isn't sure about the relationship, or maybe she values her friends' opinions more than being open with you. This often points to emotional unavailability or commitment issues.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overanalyze her decision, constantly seek validation, or pressure her into introducing him to her friends. This is harmful because it shows a lack of trust and boundaries, leading to more anxiety and potential conflict.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does it reveal about your own self-worth when you're eager to please someone who isn't fully open with you?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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