What It Means When She Likes You But Doesn't Respond Often
The Situation
"She said she likes me but barely responds to my messages"
The Brutal Truth
She may say she likes you, but her lack of response shows she's either uninterested or emotionally unavailable. It's a classic case of mixed signals. Don’t confuse her words for actions—actions speak louder and her silence is telling.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start over-texting, seeking reassurance and validation, which can push her further away. Instead of waiting for genuine interest, they may cling to uncertainty, making themselves feel worse—never a good move.
💭 Something to Reflect On
If a friend were in your shoes, what would you advise her about her worth and the kind of love she deserves?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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