What It Means When She Says She's Fine But Isn't
The Situation
"She says I'm fine but clearly isn't"
The Brutal Truth
He's dismissing her feelings and not stepping up to understand her. This behavior shows emotional unavailability and a lack of interest in her true emotional state. It's a red flag for poor communication and inability to handle relationship dynamics with maturity.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-apologize or excessively reassure him, trying to 'fix' the tension. This is detrimental because it reinforces their emotional unavailability and places their worth in seeking his approval instead of valuing their own feelings and boundaries.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What do you need to feel seen and valued in your relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
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