What to Do When He Says She's Just Friends with Other Guys
The Situation
"She's texting other guys and says they're just friends"
The Brutal Truth
Her texting other guys while claiming they're just friends signifies a lack of respect for your feelings. It shows she’s not ready to commit and may enjoy attention from multiple sources, leaving you as an option rather than a priority.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overanalyze her messages, seek constant reassurance, or even try to convince her to change her mind. This is wrong because it compromises your self-worth and allows her to dictate your emotional state.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you is willing to tolerate behavior that undermines your worth and respect in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
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