Signs She's Not Ready for Commitment: Analyzing Avoidance in Dating
The Situation
"She tells everyone we're getting engaged but avoids the actual conversation"
The Brutal Truth
She's telling everyone about an engagement that doesn't exist to project an image without the accountability of a real conversation. It's a clear indication of emotional unavailability and avoidance of commitment.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to push her into conversation about the engagement, fearing rejection or abandonment if they don’t clarify things. This is wrong because it can pressure her and cause further distancing.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only engage with someone who openly addresses their intentions and commitment with you?
✨ What To Do Next
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