Constantly Checking His Social Media: What It Means for Your Relationship
The Situation
"I check his social media constantly to see if he's active"
The Brutal Truth
You're obsessing over his online presence because you're seeking validation and reassurance from someone who likely isn't emotionally available. This reflects your anxiety and need for control, not a healthy interest in his life.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might reach out excessively, questioning his whereabouts or intentions. This is wrong because it only feeds insecurity and pushes him away, creating a cycle of doubt and dependency.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would a loving relationship look like if it was anchored in trust rather than anxiety?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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