When Your Partner Uses Your Student Loan Money: Red Flags
The Situation
"She uses my student loan refund for designer purses"
The Brutal Truth
She's exploiting your financial vulnerability for her personal gain. This is a blatant disregard for your circumstances and shows a clear lack of respect for your hard-earned money. It's manipulative behavior that prioritizes her desires over your financial well-being.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may try to justify her actions or over-explain themselves to hold onto the relationship. This is a mistake because it places your needs last while normalizing toxic behavior instead of valuing your boundaries.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What is my relationship with money, and how does it reflect on my self-worth and boundaries in relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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