Dating Red Flags: Supportive Only When Convenient
The Situation
"He's only supportive when it's convenient for him"
The Brutal Truth
This means he only offers support to meet his own needs, showing selfishness rather than true care. It's emotional manipulation, and he’s using you to feel good about himself without putting in genuine effort or commitment.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overanalyze every interaction, trying to figure out how to please him or win his affection. This is wrong because it leads to self-doubt and diminishes self-worth, rather than encouraging healthier relationship dynamics.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only engage with someone who consistently shows up for you without conditions?
✨ What To Do Next
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