Texting Excuses: Understanding Mixed Signals in Dating
The Situation
"She says time zones make texting impossible but posts constantly"
The Brutal Truth
She's posting constantly but claims time zones make texting impossible. This means she's not prioritizing you and is likely keeping her options open while avoiding real commitment. Her actions don't match her words, and that's a clear lack of respect.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might flood her with texts to gain reassurance, seeking validation. This is unhealthy because it can lead to further disregard for their own boundaries and self-worth.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What message do you send to yourself when you allow someone to treat you inconsistently?
✨ What To Do Next
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